Love & Respect by Emerson Eggerichs is a book a marriage book stemming from the biblical concept found in Ephesians 5. The idea is that a wife's deepest desire is to be loved, and a Husband's deepest desire is to be respected. Most marriage books concentrate on the love portion often forgetting the Husbands need for respect.
Dr. Eggerichs provides us with many concepts, letters from couples and a lot of scripture that seems to prove that this biblically based concept is at the root to having a healthy marriage. He takes a close look at the wife and husband separately and gives us insight into the heart of each. When Love or Respect is broken it triggers a non-desired response from the other and produces what Dr. Eggerichs calls "The Crazy Cycle". When Love and Respect is practiced in the relationship, it will not only provide a healthier relationship, but it will energize and empower the husband and husband in their daily walk.
I firmly believe that if this concept was more widely known, we would see a lot less divorce and many more healthy relationships. I would recommend this book (video series also available) to every individual and couples alike. Guaranteed, you will walk away from it with a better relationship with your spouse and with God. Never have I come across a book that is so simple and profound for maintaing a healthy marriage/relationship. I can honestly say that I understand my wife's needs a lot better, and she would say the same thing about me. Both my wife and I have gone through the book and we both agree that it gives us a blueprint for a wonderful marriage. 5 stars
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